Bakit may mga taong alam na nga na may problema ka na tapos ida-down ka parin nila?

Minsan hindi na alam ng ibang mga kung ano ang difference between constructive criticism and putting another person down. Most of the time, based on my experience, those people that you feel close with are the ones who hurt you the most. There are times hindi na joke yung dating eh, minsan intentional nalang yung bigla ka ipapahiya in front of everyone. Siyempre ikaw naman makikitawa ka nalang kaysa magwalk-out ka kasi sasabihan ka nung iba na balat sibuyas ka.

Here are some questions para sa mga ganung tipo ng tao:

1. Would it kill you kung hindi mo sasabihin kung ano man yung nasa isip mo?

2. Have you ever considered what their feelings if you say something about a certain someone while knowing that it will put them down?

3. What benefits are you getting from putting other people down?

Not that I care on what people say about me, pero bigla ko lang naisip kung bakit nga ba may mga ganun na tao…

Sharing some random thoughts… Just saying what Im thinking at the moment.

Gandang gabi.

I didn’t know writing a eulogy for my lola would be this hard. Akala ko madali nalang.